A cross-cultural scenario study about one's moral reputation

Cross-cultural comparison: Between NL vs. Turkey

Modifying the Observer of the Relational Transgression - Who Knows about the Cheating
and What is more Damaging to a Man/Woman's Honor?
A man/woman cheats but noone knows
A man/woman cheats and his mistress learns about this
A man/woman cheats and his partner (wife, exclusive gf) learns about this
A man/woman cheats and his family members know but his partner does not
A man/woman cheats and his neighbours know but not his partner
A man/woman cheats and his colleagues at work know but not his partner
A man/woman cheats and only some strangers know this but noone else